Fix Cmd+Q on macOS leaving the desktop app alive

The before-quit handler preventDefaulted on every quit and re-fired
app.quit() from .finally. That re-entered Electron through the
window-all-closed gate, which on macOS is a no-op listener that
vetoes the quit — so the window closed but the process stayed up.

Use app.exit(0) to bypass the close → window-all-closed → will-quit
chain entirely. Also drop the daemon-stop NSAlert: with no parent
window it ran app-modal and stalled the child-process pipes for
'paseo daemon stop', so daemon shutdown waited on the user dismissing
the dialog. Replace it with an in-app overlay rendered in the renderer
via a paseo:event:quitting IPC event. Stop opening DevTools on dev boot.

packages/desktop/src/daemon/quit-lifecycle.test.ts

@@ -75,9 +75,9 @@ describe("quit-lifecycle", () => {
     );
   });
 
-  it("gates quit until the stop decision completes, then lets the next quit pass through", async () => {
+  it("preventDefaults the first quit, runs the async stop decision, then exits hard", async () => {
     let resolveStopDecision: (() => void) | null = null;
-    const app = { quit: vi.fn() };
+    const app = { exit: vi.fn() };
     const closeTransportSessions = vi.fn();
     const onStopError = vi.fn();
     const preventDefault = vi.fn();
@@ -99,20 +99,20 @@ describe("quit-lifecycle", () => {
 
     expect(preventDefault).toHaveBeenCalledTimes(1);
     expect(closeTransportSessions).toHaveBeenCalledTimes(1);
-    expect(app.quit).not.toHaveBeenCalled();
+    expect(app.exit).not.toHaveBeenCalled();
     expect(resolveStopDecision).not.toBeNull();
 
     resolveStopDecision?.();
     await Promise.resolve();
     await Promise.resolve();
 
-    expect(app.quit).toHaveBeenCalledTimes(1);
+    expect(app.exit).toHaveBeenCalledWith(0);
     expect(onStopError).not.toHaveBeenCalled();
 
     handleBeforeQuit({ preventDefault: secondPreventDefault });
 
     expect(secondPreventDefault).not.toHaveBeenCalled();
     expect(closeTransportSessions).toHaveBeenCalledTimes(2);
-    expect(app.quit).toHaveBeenCalledTimes(1);
+    expect(app.exit).toHaveBeenCalledTimes(1);
   });
 });

packages/desktop/src/daemon/quit-lifecycle.ts

@@ -11,7 +11,7 @@ interface BeforeQuitEvent {
 }
 
 interface BeforeQuitApp {
-  quit(): void;
+  exit(code: number): void;
 }
 
 export interface StopOnQuitDeps {
@@ -53,30 +53,25 @@ export function createBeforeQuitHandler({
   stopDesktopManagedDaemonIfNeeded: () => Promise<boolean>;
   onStopError: (error: unknown) => void;
 }): (event: BeforeQuitEvent) => void {
-  let allowingQuitToContinue = false;
-  let quittingInProgress = false;
+  // We always preventDefault on first quit so we can run the async stop
+  // decision, then call app.exit(0) — which bypasses Electron's
+  // close → window-all-closed → will-quit chain. The window-all-closed
+  // listener is a darwin no-op (macOS convention) and would otherwise
+  // veto a re-fired app.quit().
+  let quitting = false;
 
   return (event) => {
     closeTransportSessions();
-
-    if (allowingQuitToContinue) {
-      return;
-    }
-
+    if (quitting) return;
+    quitting = true;
     event.preventDefault();
-    if (quittingInProgress) {
-      return;
-    }
 
-    quittingInProgress = true;
     void stopDesktopManagedDaemonIfNeeded()
       .catch((error) => {
         onStopError(error);
       })
       .finally(() => {
-        allowingQuitToContinue = true;
-        quittingInProgress = false;
-        app.quit();
+        app.exit(0);
       });
   };
 }

packages/desktop/src/main.ts

@@ -9,7 +9,7 @@ import path from "node:path";
 import { pathToFileURL } from "node:url";
 import { existsSync } from "node:fs";
 import { execFileSync } from "node:child_process";
-import { app, BrowserWindow, dialog, ipcMain, nativeImage, net, protocol } from "electron";
+import { app, BrowserWindow, ipcMain, nativeImage, net, protocol } from "electron";
 import { createDaemonCommandHandlers, registerDaemonManager } from "./daemon/daemon-manager.js";
 import {
   parseCliPassthroughArgsFromArgv,
@@ -218,7 +218,6 @@ async function createMainWindow(): Promise<void> {
     const { loadReactDevTools } = await import("./features/react-devtools.js");
     await loadReactDevTools();
     await mainWindow.loadURL(DEV_SERVER_URL);
-    mainWindow.webContents.openDevTools({ mode: "detach" });
     return;
   }
 
@@ -402,13 +401,9 @@ void bootstrap().catch((error) => {
 });
 
 function showDaemonShutdownDialog(): void {
-  void dialog.showMessageBox({
-    type: "info",
-    message: "Shutting down Paseo daemon…",
-    detail: "Paseo will quit once the local daemon has stopped.",
-    buttons: [],
-    noLink: true,
-  });
+  for (const win of BrowserWindow.getAllWindows()) {
+    win.webContents.send("paseo:event:quitting", {});
+  }
 }
 
 app.on(