refactor(app): reshape session store reads around narrow hook surface

Eliminate sidebar re-render cascades by fixing both sides of the
subscription contract:

- Session-store writes preserve identity: setWorkspaces, mergeWorkspaces,
  removeWorkspace, and patchWorkspaceScripts return the previous Map/entry
  reference when content is unchanged.
- HostRuntimeController.updateSnapshot only notifies when a patched field
  actually changed; idle probe ticks no longer replace the snapshot.
- New canonical hook surface in stores/session-store-hooks.ts
  (useWorkspace, useWorkspaceFields, useWorkspaceStructure,
  useWorkspaceKeys, useResolveWorkspaceIdByCwd,
  useWorkspaceStatusesForBadges, useWorkspaceExecutionAuthority,
  useRecommendedProjectPaths, useHasWorkspaces). These are the only
  place to subscribe to workspaces.
- 15 greedy subscribers migrated to the hook surface. The sidebar is now
  driven by useWorkspaceStructure for identity/ordering; each row
  hydrates its own descriptor via useWorkspaceFields, so a workspace
  update re-renders only its row. Archive-redirect callbacks switched to
  event-time useSessionStore.getState().
- Deleted dead code: use-session-directory.ts, workspace-fetch-debug.ts,
  and the unused SidebarProjectEntry aggregates (activeCount,
  totalWorkspaces, aggregated statusBucket).

No user-visible behavior change. Targeted tests green (79 tests across
host-runtime, session-store, session-store-hooks, sidebar list, sidebar
row model, sidebar shortcuts, workspace source of truth).

packages/app/src/utils/sidebar-project-row-model.test.ts

@@ -31,9 +31,6 @@ function project(overrides: Partial<SidebarProjectEntry> = {}): SidebarProjectEn
     projectName: "paseo",
     projectKind: "git",
     iconWorkingDir: "/repo",
-    statusBucket: "done",
-    activeCount: 0,
-    totalWorkspaces: 1,
     workspaces: [workspace()],
     ...overrides,
   };